"Is the message I’m sending the one they’re actually receiving?”
But how can i know how that they are receiving what i am sending?
On the way are nt there a lot of things that can transform the message to something different? I m thinking bout thingd like ambuguity of words, interpretation, culture, personal history...i observe those things often especially in more intimate relationships...what do you think?
Thank you for the question! That is the whole point: talk in the mind representation of the other person, not in yours, so that they get what you want to say.
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"Is the message I’m sending the one they’re actually receiving?”
But how can i know how that they are receiving what i am sending?
On the way are nt there a lot of things that can transform the message to something different? I m thinking bout thingd like ambuguity of words, interpretation, culture, personal history...i observe those things often especially in more intimate relationships...what do you think?
Thank you for the question! That is the whole point: talk in the mind representation of the other person, not in yours, so that they get what you want to say.
do you have any tipps on how to do or practice it?
I might plan a short training on how to do this using neuroscience based framework.