Why people misunderstand you (even when you’re clear)
When Your Words Bounce Off Instead of Breaking Through
Have you ever explained something as clearly as you could…
only to realize later that people heard something completely different?
It can feel frustrating.
You said the words — but they didn’t land.
You could see it so clearly in your mind — but they couldn’t picture it.
You felt the resistance in the room — like your words bounced off.
And you left wondering, “Did I do something wrong?”
Here’s the neuroscience behind it: every brain filters information differently.
Some people listen in pictures. Some need to hear the rhythm of the words. Some need to feel the emotional weight. Others look for logic and structure.
So even if your message is perfectly clear to you, it might not match how the other person processes the world.
That mismatch creates misunderstanding.
The good news? Once you know your own communication style, you can start flexing to others — so your words actually land the way you intend.
Next week, I’ll share a free resource that helps you uncover your natural style — and start bridging that gap.
Because being misunderstood isn’t about clarity. It’s about connection.
When was the last time you felt your message didn’t land the way you intended? Write me in the comments:
